Winter Slumber Confession – Why I Was Dead in Social Media

Winter Slumber Confession – Why I Was Dead in Social Media

Winter ootd - Punk Inspired Look ( 4 of 7 photos) For more photos and full ootd post, visit http://goo.gl/tVONrL - YukiBomb

Photo by Matt Sy

Throughout December 2015 to the beginning of January 2016, I received a lot of comments and messages regarding my absence in the virtual world. “You should be more active” or “Where have you been?” “You disappeared on us. Where did you go?” I finally decided it’s time for my confession.

Punk Inspired Look ( 1 of 7 photos) For more photos and full ootd post, visit http://goo.gl/tVONrL - YukiBomb

Photo by Matt Sy

Here Is My Confession:

I was feeling depressed and was recovering from physical pain. I was in a horrific car accident in the end of November 2015. My car was completely totaled after I was T-boned by a pick-up truck; I was struck on my side of the car and lost consciousness. I was not able to walk freely for weeks. I was in pain, I lost my new car, but I was feeling blessed as hell.

Glam Punk Inspired Look ( 6 of 7 photos) For more photos and full ootd post, visit http://goo.gl/tVONrL - YukiBomb

Dress by Zara

On my way to the emergency room, the paramedics said, “You’re an extremely lucky girl.”

I did not break a single bone, nor did I lose a single drop of blood. What I did lose was my old perspective on life…

Glam Punk Inspired Look ( 2 of 7 photos) For more photos and full ootd post, visit http://goo.gl/tVONrL - YukiBomb

Photo by Matt Sy

Another Confession

As I was recovering, I noticed I had trouble concentrating and remembering things. I would suddenly and randomly feel extremely uneasy, and I felt dizzy at times. Despite it, I brushed it off like it was nothing… Until last week, I was dizzy with a headache for over 24 hours, so my family took me to the hospital. Turns out I was diagnosed with post-concussive syndrome. It is a head injury where symptoms show after some time of the accident. Good news is that my CT scans were clear and there is no permanent damage, but I will continue to struggle with my symptoms for a few months to possibly a year. And of course, my neck and back won’t be the same as before.

Kristen Stewart Inspired Look ( 3 of 7 photos) For more photos and full ootd post, visit http://goo.gl/tVONrL - YukiBomb

Photo by Matt Sy

Yuki’s Back

In spite of this, I honestly feel very blessed to be alive. I feel blessed to be able to walk and breathe on my own. To see my loved ones and tell them I love them. To notice who was there for me and who supports me in different ways.

Kristen Stewart and Glam Punk Inspired Look ( 2 of 7 photos) For more photos and full ootd post, visit http://goo.gl/tVONrL - YukiBomb

Photo by Matt Sy

I feel like God or an angel protected me, and gave me another chance to live, gave me more time to love who I love, and continue to pursue my dreams.

Kristen Stewart and Punk Inspired Look ( 5 of 7 photos) For more photos and full ootd post, visit http://goo.gl/tVONrL - YukiBomb

Photo taken in Lake Arrowhead by Matt Sy

My Purpose of the Confession

I am not telling this to you for sympathy or attention. My reason for publicly revealing my personal experience or confession is to hope that others will be cautious, aware, be grateful of what they have, and to simply live their life. Don’t be careless, but live. Be who you are. Don’t live a day with a single regret. Your life can change in an instant, or worse, possibly end. So be courageous. Lastly, be thankful.

Winter Slumber Confession Photo - For more photos and full ootd post, visit http://goo.gl/tVONrL - YukiBomb

What I’m Wearing

Plaid Dress by Zara (find similar one here)

Scarf and Beanie by Urban Outfitters

Jacket by Nasty Gal

Bag by Steve Madden

Boots by Aldo

 Thank You

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Also, please tell me below, what do you appreciate most? Do you have a confession you can share with me? I won’t judge, I promise. <3

 

 

 

 

 

 

Classy Black Lace Dress for Fall

 Sexy, Classy Lace

YukiBomb Black Lace Dress

Photo by Matt Sy

Fall is here but it’s still too hot to wear sweaters and jeans. I love this black lace dress because it is easy to wear, breathable, and absolutely pretty. When I wear this dress, I feel like a classy lady and should be well-composed and graceful.

Sexy Black Lace

Photo by Matt Sy

DRESS ELEGANTLY AND MODESTLY

Black Lace Dress

Photo by Matt Sy

The great thing about black lace dresses like the one I am wearing is that it is an effortless piece. I have worn this dress with heels and flats and feel that no matter what you wear with it, it will look great. I bought this dress in a boutique somewhere in DTLA (I don’t remember! Sorry!!) As time passes, I feel that I find myself being attracted to more modest yet textured pieces. It is fun to dress crazily sometimes, but dressing lady-like can make you feel pretty. Whimsicality in lace dresses is the best of my interest within this category. It is a material that moderates your look, but the color of black is always bold and mysterious.

Black Lace Dress & Michael Kors

Photo by Matt Sy

Black Lace Dress

Photo by Matt Sy

 

Depending on how you wear this dress, it is definitely a piece that is appropriate for many events such as weddings, reunions, parties, dinners, and much more. I have worn this dress to Beauty Con, dinner, and a get together. The open back is a subtle detail that exposes the back vertically and was the eye- catching point for me. The lace makes me feel elegant, the black color feels mysterious, and the open back makes me feel sexy.

Black Lace Dress

Photo by Matt Sy

SEXY BACK

I feel that the best way to be sexy is doing so moderately. I love dressing elegantly and modestly with a touch of sexiness, which is why this is one of my favorite dresses. I love the black because it gives a vibe that a woman can stand up for herself with dignity.

Black Lace Dress

Photo by Matt Sy

SOME ADVICE: STAND UP FOR YOURSELF WITH DIGNITY

Black Lace Dress

Photo by Matt Sy

Being refined and considerate does not at all mean being a push-over or voicing sentiments that are not your own. On the off chance that your suppositions may be excessively forceful or may be appalling, don’t lie, however change the theme to something else. In the event that somebody asks an audacious inquiry, don’t feel obliged to reply – make a joke, or try to turn the inquiry around.

When you support yourself, express your case without turning to verbally abusing or getting excessively enthusiastic.

Photos by Matt Sy

Find a similar dress here.

Purse by Michael Kors.

Shoes by Zara.

Watch by Marc by Marc Jacobs.

Alli K Clothing Collaboration – Margot White Blouse

Alli K Clothing Collaboration – Margot White Blouse

Margot White Blouse by Alli K Clothing, Model: Yuki Ito, Photo by Ryan Chua

Photo by Ryan Chua

A white blouse is definitely a tricky color to wear, especially in photos or film. Many individuals like to avoid it since it can make you appear a bit larger than your true size, but white is very versatile and has many personalities.

Margot White Blouse by Alli K Clothing, Model: Yuki Ito, Photo by Ryan Chua

Photo by Ryan Chua

Wearing a White Blouse

Margot White Blouse by Alli K Clothing, Model: Yuki Ito, Photo by Ryan Chua

Photo by Ryan Chua

I actually love wearing white since it has endless faces to it, depending on how you style it. On the top of my head, white can be graceful, clean, edgy, pure, beautiful, calm, and sleek.

Alli K Clothing

Margot White Blouse by Alli K Clothing, Model: Yuki Ito, Photo by Ryan Chua

Photo By Ryan Chua

In this look, I collaborated with Alli K Clothing. Allison (the owner) is extremely kind and it was delightful working with her. I’m wearing a blouse from the Alli K Clothing 2015 Fall Collection. It is extremely comfortable and the oversized design feels very ethereal. It is a double layer white blouse that has a shorter outer layer that swoops up on the back. The back design is semi see-through, which slightly reveals my figure. I love the fit long sleeves which place comfortably on my skin.

Margot White Blouse by Alli K Clothing, Model: Yuki Ito, Photo by Ryan Chua

Photo by Ryan Chua

The hairstyle I have for this look is my current favorite way of doing my hair. It is slightly wavy, tied in a low profile pony tail. I like to leave the fly away strands on the sides to help give that free look.

Margot White Blouse by Alli K Clothing, Model: Yuki Ito, Photo by Ryan Chua

Photo by Ryan Chua

For the pants, I’m wearing H&M , and Zara boots. I love these black pants with the Margot shirt because it adds texture (there are ribbed designs on the front thigh area) which balances the clean Margot shirt.

Margot White Blouse by Alli K Clothing, Model: Yuki Ito, Photo by Ryan Chua

Photo by Ryan Chua

 

Ryan Chua the Fashion Photographer

Margot White Blouse by Alli K Clothing, Model: Yuki Ito, Photo by Ryan Chua

Photo by Ryan Chua

On this day of the shoot, I got to work with Ryan Chua in Melrose Place.I love working with him also because he is simply a pleasant and charming person to be around. I feel like we can both be dorky about all kinds of topics and go around laughing at each other. He is always a joker, which is always a plus in my book. :]

 

Margot White Blouse by Alli K Clothing, Model: Yuki Ito, Photo by Ryan Chua

Photo by Ryan Chua

 

 

Please make sure to check out AlliKClothing.com! :]

 

Photos by RyanByRyanChua.com